Cats/Kittens, Education, Entertainment, Health & Wellness, Life, Technology

Your Brain on Facebook

Facebook is blowing up about a video on Facebook.  What does it do to your brain?  It might surprise you… or it might not.

Some “facts” thrown out at you in the video explained in real life:

Courtesy of Reddit User Se7en_Sinner

People are incapable of intimately knowing more than 150 people.”

I don’t argue this fact, I argue that I can intimately know up to that amount.  It depends on my definition of intimacy, I guess.  My definition of intimacy involves letting someone hear my righteous burping or see me without make-up.

Basically for me, the deeper the intimacy, the more natural, bodily functions I’ll allow a person to see.

I’ll be honest, my intimate circle is small because I don’t want other people seeing or hearing things that can’t be unseen or unheard.

“Girls Don’t Poop” PooPourri Commercial

My friend count on Facebook isn’t just a number that makes me feel good because it’s high and that means I’m “like omg so popular.”  My number of friends says that I met all these people at least once.

Maybe I slept over their house in middle school because we were best friends and we did that every weekend.  Maybe I shared a class with them and we rolled our eyes every time that one kid pulled out his e-cigarette.  Maybe they told me a joke at a party and I nearly fell off the couch and peed my pants a little.

Life is too short to keep track of how I met my “friends,” but I can say I know at least a couple of details about the person without needing to scan their profile to figure out “who they are.”

And my friend count is over 400.

“The western and modern world sanctions individuality.  The individual is measured by … having a career, wealth, a self-image, and consumerism… Many people lose their social and familial connections in favor of a self-actualization ideal.”

Courtesy of HeyImmaTrickster

Is it entirely wrong of me to pursue a career, to generate an income, hold my head high, and buy things I want?  No.

Does that make me self-obsessed?  No.

Would my friends be mad that I’m pursuing my goals that I set for myself?  No, because they wouldn’t be my friends if they did.

So we should blame the online social network because we’re “collecting friends like stamps and not distincting quantity versus quality?”

I’m going to go with my favorite reply and say, “No.”  Strictly speaking for myself, I see quality in every person I meet… maybe with the exception being that douche with the e-cigarette in class.

(I did not add him on Facebook.)

“Converting the deep meaning and intimacy of friendship with exchange in photos and chat conversations.  By doing so we are sacrificing conversation with connection.”

Again, I might be speaking for myself but when I send my friend a cat photo I found on Imgur, I’m not saying, “OOH Cat.  Look at cat.”  I’m saying, “Hey, I like this cat photo and I know you will, too.  Not in a way that it’s obviously a cat and we both like cats.  In a way that this cat symbolizes something deeper, perhaps a longing to be a cat or to merely be in a cat’s presence.  We are both cat people and seeing this cat will make us both happy.  Here, I present to you not only a cat photo but the happiness that can only be achieved when two cat people see a cat photo.”

AGAIN, I repeat that I have a “small, intimate circle” of friends.

Also, depth of my cat obsession:

“Instead of building true friendships, we’re obsessed with endless personal promotion.  Investing hours on end on our profile, pursuing the optimum order of words in our next message, choosing the pictures in which we look our best.”

Honestly, if your social media account is all that is holding your life together: Keep on keeping on.  I won’t judge, just like I hope you don’t judge me for the horrible, awful looking faces I keep making in every photo I take or all of my cat photos.

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Masquerade Ball circa 2013.

The “fantasies” that this video proposes we use social media for:

1.) We can put our attention where we want it to be.

2.) We will always be heard.

3.) We will never have to be alone.

Which equate to “I share therefore I am.”

A play on Descartes’ “Cognito Ergo Sum” or “I think therefore I am,” however the fantasies are exactly not fantastical.

These ideas are not whimsical or frivolous.

Whether or not social media exists, these are truths we as humans have until the day we die and cease to be.

So, take that Sherry Turkle.

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College, Education, Entertainment, Health & Wellness, Life

How I’m Living My Life in My Twenties (Take it or Leave it)

I’m twenty-two and I’m tired of other writers telling me how I “my twenties” should be.

I know I might be an exception to “the rule” when it comes to being a twenty-something (I visit my “family” maybe once a year, my mom is not my best friend, I have three jobs while going to school full-time, and Red Flag I have been in a relationship for about three years), but I know not that different than some of my peers.

I’m going after what I want because I know what I want and because  I’m not a twenty-something with my head up my a**.

This is my list of How I’m Living My Life in My Twenties (Take it or Leave it):

1.) I’m in a relationship.

Marshall and Lily High Five gif

Courtesy of PandaWhale.com

I emotionally invest in my S.O. and he does the same.  I do this without hesitation because WHO HOLDS BACK THEIR FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE?

Emotionally Unstable People.

My advice is if you find someone who treats you right, makes you happy, and you can see a future with them: don’t just throw them to the curb just because you’re a twenty-something.

2.) When I was single, I didn’t sleep around.

Courtesy of CelebQuote.com

And as great as emotionless sex is, I’d rather not sleep around for funzies and wonder why my self-esteem is in the garbage or why I have an unexplained rash.

Analyze that, EliteDaily.com.

However if you enjoy sleeping with whoever you want, go for it.  I’m not here to judge, just don’t judge me for not doing the same.

2.) I drink on a budget.

Courtesy of Imgur.

So I buy cheap wine and go out for “Two Dollar Tuesday.”  You know why?  Because this twenty-something buys her drinks and I’m poor.

I feel like we can all agree that, “Candy is dandy but liquor is quicker.”

3.) I don’t go on vacation.

Courtesy of the Huffington Post.

You know why, Buzzfeed and Thought Catalog?  Because I’m broke.  That’s why.

4.) I don’t go to dance class.

Courtesy of Vulture.com

You know why, Thought Catalog?  Oh yeah, I’m broke and work too much in order to get out of being broke.

When I get on a dance floor, I rely solely on what I feel in my heart, my instincts, and Beyonce videos.

5.) I can’t get and then quit a job for “The Lolz.”

Courtesy of Undergrad.osu.edu

Struggling economy.  Competitive application processes.   Fighting over the minimum wage.  Need I say more?

Oh yeah, I’m poor.

6.) I don’t write about how great being in my 20’s is WHILE I AM STILL IN MY 20’s!

CelebQuote.com

Hindsight is great because it lets you know why things happened.  It allows you to point to what was the right choice and what was the wrong choice in certain situations.

The problem with declaring how awesome being in your twenties is while you’re still in your twenties: You’re only comparing it to being in your teens and childhood.

Although the Magic School Bus and Mr. Rogers were really cool, making them compete with Long Island Iced Teas and being seated at the bar at Buffalo Wild Wings on Half-Price Wings Night isn’t really fair.

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Sorry, Thought Catalog, EliteDaily, and BuzzFeed.  I guess I’m not your demographic.

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Beauty, Fashion, Life

JustFab.com Clearance Items!

JustFab.com always has a clearance sale going on and this month, I finally decided to indulge.

If you’ve been following my blog, you know I haven’t purchased anything “fabulous” since the Summer.  This recent sale was the push that I needed to finally loosen my grip on my wallet… and boy was I glad.

For less than $70.00, I got these closed-toe, ankle-wrap heels:

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Brigitte – JustFab.com

This I’m-About-To-Do-Business Bag:

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Capital – JustFab.com

And this cross-body clutch that just might fit my Samsung Galaxy s4:

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Glimmer – JustFab.com

For less than $25.00 each, these items are a steal.  If you haven’t signed up for JustFab.com yet, the deals you can get for these quality items are extremely reasonable.

And if you feel you aren’t the most stylish, the company gives you a stylist to help you out.  Simply pick out what  your preferences are for a color palette and sizes and BAM.  You just got your dose of fabulous.

I cannot wait for these packages in the mail.  If only JustFab partnered with Amazon and borrowed those drones!

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Cats/Kittens, Celebrity, Entertainment, Life, Technology

Animal Lovers: Instagramers to Follow

Here’s a brief list of Instagramers who will populate your Instagram feed with daily photos of some favorite-worthy photos.  These furry friends will surely brighten your day while you’re mobile.

dailypuppy

The dailypuppy posts the cutest puppies every day.  Just check out those French Bulldog puppies!dailypuppy

jmarcoz

This user focuses on French and English bulldogs.  Some of my favorite!

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puggleparty

This Puggle poster have a “puggle problem.”  If you enjoy the Puggle breed of dog, hit Follow!

Puggleparty

emonemon

This Instagramer has a Scottish Fold cat.  His name is Shishi-maru and he will put a smile on your face when you’re browsing through your feed.

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A classic favorite:

hamilton_the_hipster_cat

Here is a cat that needs no introduction.  With almost a half-million followers, this cat is Internet-famous.

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